We give an analogy. Imagine that a person who does not feel pain, put his hand in boiling water. He does not understand what the traumatic event is happening and does not know what to do. So with emotions - a person does not feel that he is tired, tense, afraid, worries, angry, does not understand what is happening, and does not know what to do, but emotions work, accumulate and increase stress in the body.
Thus, it is brought up to distrust with its own emotional reactions, and the child is committed to being not in contact with them - that is, it does not understand what is happening at the moment. After all, evolutionary emotions developed as a surrounding reaction and served to select the correct behavior model. For example, we feel - circumstances or person cause fear and suspicion, the situation is tense, - and we understand how to act further. Emotions suggest true behavior in certain circumstances. But if a person does not have this contact, he continues to be in these circumstances and does not understand what is happening and what to do.
My children and a man knows great that I have my own corner in the apartment. I close every day there for a short time, I need it, and all of this take and respected. Similarly, as the man has his own office, and in every child - his room, where nobody will worry if they want to house alone www.italiatopgames.it/articoli/perche-giocare-alla-roulette-online/117301/.
I still have a very often bumping woman's misunderstanding when I say that a man and baby need to put one level. But I am convinced that in a family, respect should not be in the name of children, but in the name of each of its members.
Then a lot of acquaintances with horror horrified eyes and said: "How about how to break?" But to lace from this trip with a loved one or from this Sunday walks returned to another person who does not sit on a child, not all his images and stresses, but, on the contrary, crops the same love, caressing, tenderness, which children and needs . And besides, it also lifts relations with your husband .